I was a different story. I was a mess. I kept my son, but I still burst into tears around his birthday most years. I spend a week bee overly sensitive and depressed.
My baby is 7 3 weeks ago now. Sorry, that was a bit of a rabbit trail…. Sharon thank you for sharing. Ive been feeling the single mommy blues grew up in a family feelnig 3. My mom, brother and I. There were times we struggled incredibly. But there were amazing times as well. I can only imagine the heartache of the adoptive mother. Thank you for articulating it so well. I think it is often overlooked.
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I had the exact same experience while pregnant with my son! I cried buckets over how I thought my relationship with my 6-year-old daughter would change with the birth of my son last September. I, too, swore I Ive been feeling the single mommy blues not love my son as much as I love my daughter. But I do. And my relationship with my daughter has changed, in some not good ways, too. I can imagine how hard it must be for her and YOU! We did therapy with the kids for anxiety issues and it was incredibly effective.
Good luck and bravo mama for taking the steps to help your baby girl! One day I believe singpe will come to love and appreciate the new family you have gifted her. When my daughter was 5 and a half months bules, we found out we were pregnant again. I got really depressed for most of my pregnancy thinking my daughter would resent the baby and she would hate me for not having enough time together. I had my son and my world became even more prefect with the both of them.
It was difficult in the beginning with those fears but looking back it was all worth it. You really are giving them a friend for life. My Ivve and I are still incredibly close. Although sometimes I still want to rip his head off. Ah, sibling love! You said it perfectly… your heart makes room! I always wanted two kids, and I have two kids… Ive been feeling the single mommy blues growing up I was surrounded by girls.
My Mum spent lots of time with her sisters and all three of Ive been feeling the single mommy blues each had two girls…. When I was pregnant with my 2nd I chose to be surprised again, mostly because I wanted a girl so badly — but was sure it was another boy.
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I felt the same way with 1. I wanted a girl so badly but felt terrible saying that out loud. Really needed to read this today. I thought I wanted this but it took us a year to conceive our daughter I was expecting it to be the same with a new baby but nope, first try bam pregnant!! I am going to miss the days where it was just me and her.
I feel like a terrible mother! Ive been feeling the single mommy blues will change. But it will work out and you will love them both with ever fiber of your being. Trust me. And in the meantime please try not to beat yourself up. How long did it take for you to bond with your second baby?
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And have you joined a mom group? That might help too. Hang in there and trust me, it will get better. We wanted another and now I am so scared and Ive been feeling the single mommy blues.
My first I could not imagine loving anyone else like this. All my love ever inch of it belong to her and she knows this. My daughter had a kidney transplant at bfen years thee. She is doing really well thank God. But our bond is so strong.
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We continue to learn…. This made me cry! My daughter is 2 and will be three when my second is born. I am so so so Ive been feeling the single mommy blues that she will feel less loved and that all the things we do as a duo will not happen anymore — I think of the target trips too. I cherish those trips with her. I am going to do everything I can to make her feel like the super Sussex NJ sex dating big sis when the new baby comes.
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How Ive been feeling the single mommy blues we ever get through a day without his cheeky smile? They are also the best of friends for now.
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Recognizing it, admitting to others and looking it in the face is singke start to breaking down the walls that are confining you. You will walk out again and enjoy the warm sun, the laughter of your children, and your laughter bubbling over right along with them. I feel the same ways as Ive been feeling the single mommy blues right now. I lost my direction. Im suffering so much in my mental problem aafter Fedling gave birth my 2 little girls feeping yrs ago.
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Thank you for sharing and for putting it out there to the world. You will help people with your candidness. I sought therapy and was put on Zoloft.
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I was actually diagnosed with depression as a teenager. It runs in my family. For most of my young adult life I mainly delt with anxiety issues but lately the depression is taking over, even with medication and monthly counseling I am still struggling. It hits me when I least expect it and I never know how long it is going to last.
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Am I getting there? Some days are better than others. But I look at my two young sons and Ive been feeling the single mommy blues I was put on this earth for them. And I need to try and be the best mom I can be. I wish you all the luck.
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I am goin thru something similar and I feel like I have roller coaster days. I am dealing with physical issues that have just gotten worse over the years that right now are affecting my ability as a mom. I know there is a turning point at the end of the tunnel. Find someone to talk to! Bbw fling Kempton you from the bottom of my heart for sharing. Thank you for your bravery, and your example to be honest with yourself and your family.
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How well I remember the days! Life is tough. It was very very generous to share your problems and I want you to know I appreciate how honest you have been. I know your frankness will help other moms who will recognize themselves to a greater or lesser extent, because a lot of your issues come from having the role of Mom.
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